Week 50: Divine Design

We had a few things happen this week that were really awesome. 

On Friday, while we were eating lunch, I felt impressed to send this into the District group chat on Facebook messenger: "Hey does anyone have any advice on how to explain eternal marriage and back it up with scripture, especially when they bring up Matthew 22:24-30?"  There were a lot of good responses with scripture references and quotes from General Authorities.  One missionary said, "When I explain eternal marriage to stubborn people who want to argue it, I say, 'doesn't it sound rad to live with a perfect version of your spouse forever?!'"  I felt inspired to ask that question earlier as it was brought to my attention a few days prior. We met a guy named Twain about two hours later and the one question he asked was, "If a woman's husband dies, and she gets remarried, what happens in heaven? Does God just wipe the memory away? Is there even marriage in heaven?"  Because those answers were fresh in my mind, we were able to talk about eternal families and the blessings of temple marriage. After hearing that, he told us that his daughter died four years ago and he would do whatever it takes to live with her again. God works in mysterious ways.

On Wednesday, we went to Publix to get some PubSubs.  The lady making our sandwich was having a bad day but we asked her questions and she started to open up.  We found out that she's actually a member of the church but hasn't been in years.  We told her that she's always welcome and we left her with a smile on her face.  Later in the day, we stopped by an apartment complex to see someone we are teaching.  They weren't home, so we started to walk back to the car.  We saw a guy outside his door reading a book.  We stopped and talked to him.  It turns out that his girlfriend is a member of the church.  He opened the door and she came out.  She is super knowledgeable about the gospel but felt unsupported by her family.  We told her about the two hour block and the new Come, Follow Me program.  She was super excited about that and showed interest in coming back.  Those two experiences were not by chance.  We were led to those places by the Spirit, and had those interactions because of the hand of God.

"And in nothing doth man offend God, or against none is his wrath kindled, save those who confess not his hand in all things ... " (D&C 59:21)

We got our transfer calls this week and it looks like Elder Taylor and I are staying in good ol' Sumterville for the next six weeks.  When we told the ward council that they were stuck with us for another month and half, Bishop Snodgrass did a fist pump and said, "cha-ching" right in front of everyone haha.  It was pretty surprising, I didn't know he liked us that much.  It's good though, at least he doesn't think we're complete scrubs.

" ... But behold, I, Nephi, will show unto you that the tender mercies of the Lord are over all those whom he hath chosen, because of their faith, to make them mighty even unto the power of deliverance." (1 Nephi 1:20)

"The Lord’s hand is guiding you. By 'divine design,' He is in the small details of your life as well as the major milestones." - Elder Ronald A. Rasband

I'm starting to realize more and more, why my mission has been the way it's been, why I've been in the areas I've been in, why I've met the people I've met, and why I'm on a mission in Orlando, Florida.  God does not do things by coincidence, but by divine design.  His hand is in all things and it's beyond any human comprehension.  I know He has a plan for me and He continues to work miracles in my life.  That is true for every child of God that has ever been or ever will be on this earth.

Elder Poulsen

 Last District pic

Met some friends

Week 50: Joel 2:12-13

One of my favorite scriptures in the Book of Mormon is Alma 37.  I chose to put Alma 37:36 on my mission plaque which says: "Yea, and cry unto God for all thy support; yea, let all thy doings be unto the Lord, and whithersoever thou goest let it be in the Lord; yea, let all thy thoughts be directed unto the Lord; yea, let the affections of thy heart be placed upon the Lord forever."

I was reading in Alma 37 again and was hit hard reading the last two verses. "O my son, do not let us be slothful because of the easiness of the way; for so was it with our fathers; for so was it prepared for them, that if they would look they might live; even so it is with us. The way is prepared, and if we will look we may live forever.  And now, my son, see that ye take care of these sacred things, yea, see that ye look to God and live. Go unto this people and declare the word, and be sober. My son, farewell." (Alma 37:46-47)

I was thinking about my life and how sometimes I've chosen to not follow Christ or to be slothful because it was "too easy".  The Gospel of Jesus Christ is simple.  We know exactly what we must do to be blessed with eternal life.  It all comes down to one thing; look to God and live.

Elder Poulsen

Week 49: In the Big Inning

It was a pretty difficult week.  We seemed to hit a wall with contacts and didn't have any teaching appointments.  I've also been struggling to fall asleep.  I've been running on fumes everyday.  The work moves forward regardless.

On Friday, we were finishing up our finding time before we went to dinner.  We were at an apartment complex in Wildwood and were going to stop by thus lady who has seen missionaries before.  While we were walking up to the door, a teenage boy walked by and I told him that I liked his shorts.  We started talking and it turns out, this kid is dang good baseball player.  Good enough that he's been scouted by MLB teams.  I told him that God loves baseball because it's talked about in the first verse of the Bible (In the beginning...).  His name is Alberson and he's from Venezuela.  We talked to him about what we do and why we're here.  He thought it was really cool and said he'd love to hear what we had to say.  It was really awesome talking to him.  He's a good kid and has good in his heart.  It got me thinking.  This area is full of older folks, and many of them are great people, but too many are mean, too set in their ways, and won't even take the time to be nice.  All of the younger people I've met out here have been nice and genuine.  It reminded me about how God has commanded us to be as children.

"For the natural man is an enemy to God, and has been from the fall of Adam, and will be, forever and ever, unless he yields to the enticings of the Holy Spirit, and putteth off the natural man and becometh a saint through the atonement of Christ the Lord, and becometh as a child, submissive, meek, humble, patient, full of love, willing to submit to all things which the Lord seeth fit to inflict upon him, even as a child doth submit to his father." (Mosiah 3:19)

Last Monday, Elder Taylor and I were writing emails at the chapel in Belleview.  I looked at my watch and realized that we were going to be late to dinner.  We called the family and told them we'd be late.  We left right away and realized that they were the furthest they could possibly be.  We ended up being an hour and a half late.  We felt so much remorse for being late.  We walked in and there was definitely an uncomfortable feeling.  We knew that we had let these people down.  We started to talk to them and were genuinely investing in them, and the whole feeling of the dinner changed. We messed up and let them down, but we did our best to help them know that we were apologetic.  We left them with a prayer, our testimonies, and the Spirit was strong.  I know that love and the Spirit conquers all.

"Behold, the Lord hath forbidden this thing; wherefore, the Lord God hath given a commandment that all men should have charity, which charity is love. And except they should have charity they were nothing." (2 Nephi 26:30)

Have a great week!

Elder Poulsen

Golf Range

Olive Garden

Week 49: Romans 1:16-17

A particular missionary once told me that I should only study Preach My Gospel and the Book of Mormon. Those are both great, but doing so would rob me of the wonderful resources that are available. I took this into my heart and decided to study some of the Old Testament. I read the book of Daniel because I absolutely love his story. In the first few chapters, Daniel, Shadrach, Meshach, and Abed-nego are all taken to Babylon. They refuse to follow the traditions of Babylon and stick to what they know is true. In turn, they are blessed with increased knowledge.

"As for these four children, God gave them knowledge and skill in all learning and wisdom: and Daniel had understanding in all visions and dreams ... And in all matters of wisdom and understanding, that the king inquired of them, he found them ten times better than all the magicians and astrologers that were in all his realm." (Daniel 1:17, 20)

"Daniel answered and said, Blessed be the name of God for ever and ever: for wisdom and might are his: And he changeth the times and the seasons: he removeth kings, and setteth up kings: he giveth wisdom unto the wise, and knowledge to them that know understanding: He revealeth the deep and secret things: he knoweth what is in the darkness, and the light dwelleth with him. I thank thee, and praise thee, O thou God of my fathers, who hast given me wisdom and might, and hast made known unto me now what we desired of thee: for thou hast now made known unto us the king’s matter." (Daniel 2:20-23)

They were wiser than all of the well learned men of Babylon. Relating it to myself, I know that even though I don't know everything, I know enough. When I stay faithful, God will consecrate my efforts and will increase my knowledge. I know that to be true for all of us.

Elder Poulsen

Week 48: 寶长老 (Bǎo Zhǎnglǎo)

It was a pretty basic week.  I have a few things to talk about.

First, we went down to Orlando on Saturday for a baptism.  It was someone who Elder Taylor taught in his last area.  It's actually a Chinese Branch which is super cool.  The lady's name is Ming and she is adorable.  Cute little old Asian lady.  Her smile was super contagious.  It was a really great service.  The branch president and his wife are both from America, are fluent in Chinese, and adopted two girls from China.  I talked to the branch president's wife and daughters who were super nice.  They give every missionary they "like" a Chinese missionary name.  So I am now "Bǎo Zhǎnglǎo" which basically sounds like, in a rough way, "Po Chong-Lao".  It was pretty funny.  After the baptism, our member ride had to stop at Costco to get his hearing aids fixed.  Id say about 80% of our ward wears a hearing aid.  Anyway, while Elder Taylor and I were waiting, we walked around and tried all the free samples, and I kid you not, we ran into 3 separate member families.  We'd just hear, "Hey, Elders!".  Elder Taylor and I were just laughing about it because, A, anytime you're in a store or restaurant on a day that's not Monday, you always see members.  I guess it's just God's way of keeping us on track.  B, they all probably thought we were just chillin' at Costco on a Saturday afternoon.  Dang, these Orlando missionaries are scrubs.

We had one really cool finding experience this week.  Two Sundays ago, we stopped by one last person for the night. We went looking for a woman.  We knocked on the door and a guy came to the window and said "We're good." and walked away. We left the house and drove down a few houses, and pulled over to report it.  I opened the area book on my tablet and was about to stop teaching this woman, but my tablet wouldn't work.  We waited and waited for it to work, and then a car pulled up to us.  I don't know how, but he knew it was us. It was the same guy who said they were good.  He told us to come back during the day and that he'd be open to talking to us.  It was a miracle.  We went back this week and had a lesson with him.  His name is Jeff.  He was extremely receptive.  Probably the most receptive person I've met on my mission.  He asked so many key questions like "why are there so many translations of the Bible?" and "why don't church's do missionary work?". Elder Taylor and I feel like the lesson went very well.  It flowed and the Spirit was present.  Not once did Jeff have a problem with what we said.  He was so agreeable and receptive.  It was too good to be true.  Elder Taylor and I were hyped for the rest of the day.  It was complete divine intervention.

That's all I have, hope you have a great week!

Elder Poulsen

Week 48: Helaman 5:6-9

In Elders quorum, we talked about Elder Holland's talk on reconciliation.  It was beautiful and simple.  I love the idea of forgiving people and moving on.  It only hurts us when we hold grudges.  We should always forgive to benefit them and ourselves.

"Somehow forgiveness, with love and tolerance, accomplishes miracles that can happen in no other way." - President Gordon B. Hinckley

Elder Poulsen

Week 47: He Maketh Me to Golf in Green Pastures

I'm going to be pretty brief.  Not much happened but a few things happened that were worth mentioning.

Last transfer, President Clark came up to our ward for church.  He talked to me after and asked me how the area was.  I was pretty blunt with him, telling him that the ward is pretty unmotivated and the work is slow.  He told me a lot of things, but one thing he said was "I don't care if you're on the golf course".  I didn't really think about it at all last transfer but finally we took it to heart.

Our new ward mission leader has been really pushing hard for member work and has led by example.  He invited us to come golfing with him and his friend.  It worked perfect because President gave us permission!  Never would I have guessed that I would be playing golf as a missionary as a proselyting activity.  For someone who hasn't swung a golf club, Elder Taylor did pretty good, and I wasn't too shabby either for being rusty.  It was a good time.  We were able to talk about the gospel in a very natural way and we are planning on going golfing again with them this week.

"So many of us look upon missionary work as simply tracting. Everyone who is familiar with this work knows there is a better way. That way is through the members of the Church." - President Gordon B. Hinckley

We were walking around a neighborhood near our house one evening when a guy came out yelling at us.  He asked us in a very contentious way, what we were doing and why we were out at night.  We tried explaining to him that we were missionaries for Christ.  He told me that if I wanted to meet Christ any sooner, walk onto his property.  He threatened to shoot us if he ever saw us again.  Definitely not the best environment and afterwards, I said a few choice words in the car.  I realized that my charity is not where I wanted to be.  God has given me many experiences in the past few weeks to evaluate my charity and try harder to love those that persecute me.

The last thing of the week, Mark got baptized on Saturday!  He moved up to Jacksonville and was being taught.  We were able to FaceTime in and talk to him.  It is crazy to see the change he has gone through since the first time I met him.  The gospel has really blessed his life.  I am so grateful for being a witness to his miraculous change.

That's about it, I hope y'all have a great week and enjoy the snow.  I sure miss it.

Elder Poulsen

OG Mark

They call me Arnold

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